A relative I can’t stand?  That’s a fair deal of them, actually.  But, I have two uncle’s, my dad’s brothers, that I wish I didn’t have to deal with, or hear about, or whatever.  One of them is the oldest, and the other is the youngest (of the four boys) and they’re both alcoholics.  The eldest is almost 60 and just this past winter had to be put into a full time home because he can no longer care for himself.  Years ago, he and my dad had a major falling out and right now both my dad and my grandfather are having a hard time seeing him at all - because they want to you know HELP him get better.  It’s a ridiculously long and complicated story.  The youngest is in his  40s and refuses to believe he has a problem, even though it’s lost him every job he’s ever had, and his family.  Still, he thinks it’s okay to try and wheedle his way back in to the family whenever he’s in need of money.